My husband and I were married for 23 years when his midlife crisis hit, and I realized he was having an emotional affair. It is now a physical affair as I believe they are living together. She is also married and this will be her second divorce. Please pray that God stands in the way of this affair and any person advising against our reconciliation. My husband also works at the same place as she. We have not spoken except in anger. I pray that God shows me how to love him again and softens his heart to love me again. Thanks.