My husband filed for divorce and moved out in May. It has not progressed past that as of yet. He will not go to counseling or even seek out any individual help. He is angry all the time, told his mom all the bad things I said and did, and seems to want to do "me" things even before seeing the kids. I think that he sees I have changed, but he says he can't risk things going back to the way they were. We did have fighting/communication problems in our marriage, but he also lost a lot of weight his year The weight had kept him out of our bedroom, but when he lost the weight, he didn't even try to move back in our room. I think there are some midlife issues, but I don't know how to get him to get some help? Please pray for us.