My husband and I are going through his midlife crisis. We have never been separated before. His job in Germany has kept us apart since October 2008. A month after he has taken with a german girl in her 20s. His visits were frequent then went to almost once every 6 months. He came home for Christmas to inform me that we were not getting along well. It was a surprise! I have known in my heart there was another woman, but no evidence until March 20. I have a picture of them together. I am so hurt because he was just here during our children's spring break. He carried on as if there was no conversation about him not loving me anymore. We had the best time of our lives together for a week. I have made major changes to myself since Christmas. He likes the changes, but he can't give her up or wants to because she gives him something I am not giving him. I do not know what that is. Please keep us in prayer. I love him and I want to make this marriage work. I want to work on me first. Keep us in prayer.