Since your husband is going through a giant upheaval as he rethinks his values and commitments, he is probably looking at you with an evaluative eye. How do you look to him? Do you dress to suit him? Are you sexually appealing? What does he like or dislike about you emotionally--and physically?
In a sense, his judgment of you may seem chauvinistic remember that men are very visual--he needs to be attracted to you. But since you are trying to help him through his midlife crisis, it would be appropriate at this time for you to study his tastes. If you don't measure up 100%, don’t be discouraged--do what you can to improve what you have. God wants you to meet your husband's needs for physical attractiveness.
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