Hang in there...

It can be very devastating when your spouse is going through a midlife crisis. It creates a traffic accident in your life that threatens to derail everything you have worked for. It is vital that you keep growing when you don't feel like it, stay productive when you want to lay around, and stay connected when you want to isolate. You have already suffered a loss but you don't want to continue losing by stifling your own progress. Hang in there.