When bad thoughts of my husband and the other woman pop into my mind, it think of this verse:
"You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good."
I feel blessed by the trial and journey I've been through. I felt the presence of Jesus every step of the way. The Lord used the trial to mature me in Christ's ways. I have no regrets and will be forever grateful to the Lord for knowing what I can handle and how much heat it would take to refine me into the person He wants me to be.
Let the Lord carry you through. Rely completely on Him. Trust fully in Him.
"Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways."