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Q. Everything is great and wonderful for us now except my husband won't give up his "friend". It is causing me mental damage. If he could just stop being in touch with her everything would be perfect.

A.   I want you to know that I am concerned about you because you are focusing only on your husband giving up this other woman. Unless you discover why he needs the other woman, and then eliminate that need, he will still have the same problem with other women. So the solution is to eliminate the need for the other woman -- asking repeatedly and begging him to give her up is counterproductive.