A. You don't get control of your mouth because deep inside, you don't really want to, you are deeply hurt and angry about what your husband is doing. You are wearing your heart on your sleeve and it is still very hurt, even has salt in the wound, so whenever your husband does something to hurt you deeper, you strike out. There is a part of you that wants to hurt him back and feels justified in doing so because of your husband’s actions. Keep praying for the Lord to help you, ask the Father to not allow the cutting hurts by your husband to touch your heart.