Thank you for writing to me, I have purchased most of the books you listed when I first realized what was happening. I found them to be very helpful. I pray to God every hour of every day to bring peace of mind to my husband and to help him to be able to see that our marriage wasn't as bad as he thought. I had to cry a little after he left tonight, Christmas Eve, and was feeling very down. Then I got your letter, it gave me more hope, and as Jim said in his book - it is a roller coaster ride, I just wish someone would stop the ride so I could get off. I love my husband very much and as I said I have never had any anger, even the day he told me he didn't love me anymore. Just the feeling like someone ripped my heart out of my chest. I will be coming to the website a lot, I have so many questions to ask. So thank you from my heart for being there. "SKY"