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April 07, 2019 / Sunday

Swan: Ladies there is a gentleman that has emailed through the website with questions, I invited him to create a log in and come to chats, not sure if he will or not. I felt I should let him know most of the chat attendees are women, to which he did state he was cautious about that because his wife has installed spyware on their computer and he knows that she checks every key stroke on their computer now. He has been using his friend’s computer to email the site. I forwarded his questions to Bill, but thought I should let you all know in case he braves it and comes into chat. They have been married 35 years, he is the one going through MLC, he has had several affairs the past year, his wife found out and at first she threw him out of the house. She has since let him move back home, but watches his every move like a hawk. He says he understands, he has betrayed her trust, but her actions are also starting to wear him out, he doesn't know how much longer he can deal with it.

Cricket: Thanks for the heads up. Hopefully he'll be able to at least connect with Bill. Too bad that some of the guys who had participated haven't connected for quite awhile... but then most of the women members haven't either. When I signed in, it showed Brin but I haven't seen anything from her tonight.

 

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April 07, 2019 / Sunday

Cricket: Good evening all.

Brin: Welcome to Sunday chat!

Swan: Hello ladies, how are you tonight?

Cricket: I'm good. Bowled in a tournament (6 games) so crashed with the computer next to me when I got home. Beautiful day though.

Swan: Cricket - Wow, 6 games, that is a lot, I personally get tired after just one game.

Cricket: My only issue was one of my fingers was sore the last couple games, apparently lifting more with that finger and hard to be inside on such a beautiful day.

Swan: Cricket - Yes, today was really nice down here as well. Last week we were overcast and much cooler, this week it is feeling a lot like summer. At least at work I have plenty of windows so I can kind of enjoy the beautiful days. Much different from a bowling alley, not much natural light there.

Swan: Brin - How are things going for you?

Cricket: Swan - Same here. WE had a nice weekend but some showers, cooler and cloudy during week but nice weekend.

Swan: Ladies there is a gentleman that has emailed through the website with questions, I invited him to create a log in and come to chats, not sure if he will or not. I felt I should let him know most of the chat attendees are women, to which he did state he was cautious about that because his wife has installed spyware on their computer and he knows that she checks every key stroke on their computer now. He has been using his friend’s computer to email the site. I forwarded his questions to Bill, but thought I should let you all know in case he braves it and comes into chat. They have been married 35 years, he is the one going through MLC, he has had several affairs the past year, his wife found out and at first she threw him out of the house. She has since let him move back home, but watches his every move like a hawk. He says he understands, he has betrayed her trust, but her actions are also starting to wear him out, he doesn't know how much longer he can deal with it.

Cricket: Thanks for the heads up. Hopefully he'll be able to at least connect with Bill. Too bad that some of the guys who had participated haven't connected for quite awhile... but then most of the women members haven't either. When I signed in, it showed Brin but I haven't seen anything from her tonight.

Swan: Cricket - she said welcome at the start, but hasn't responded since. The male members have pretty much moved on. Many of the females spend more time communicating through email and face book these days. Not sure if it is because chat is only at certain times or what, but the 24/7 method seems more popular lately. Bill says he is working on upgrading the site and adding more communication features, but I also know his travel schedule has been pretty busy, so I think the website and chat take a backseat to his conferences.

Cricket: Really - I never saw a welcome either.

Cricket: Swan - I know there is a group that participates on a separate prayer site that spun off of MLD.

Swan: Interesting, you gave your good evening all at 6:02 and she noted welcome to Sunday chat at 6:04. The site has been acting up some nights as well, last week we had an issue on Tuesday night that there was a chat room, Beth and I were in it, yet others said they only saw the Sunday chat and somehow got in it. I had deleted Sunday when I created Tuesday, so I have no clue how they were able to chat in it.

Cricket: Swan - I do know some became concerned when they got the warnings about out safety with the site but others seem to connect privately.

Swan: I know about that spin off as well and sadly there were many that followed because they wanted to do more bashing of their spouse and the other person than we allow here.

Cricket: I really think that the warnings and lack of presence when you Google mld hurt's us.

Cricket: Swan - I think part of it is that they've worked through difficult times to where they don't need the encouragement as much as they did in early days. They don't feel needed either as most have been at this for quite a while. If new members were to find us, they'd feel more of a purpose. I understand that as I come to chat to give back but not for my own encouragement.

Brin: Hello Swan, Glad to see you. It's been lonely in this room.

Brin: How are you today Swan?

Swan: New people find the website all the time, I get emails from them and I invite them to chat. Many say they might come to chat; others worry about their spouses finding them on chat and using it against them.

Swan: Brin - Cricket and I were just commented that you haven't said anything. We have been chatting away; I am getting so frustrated with this addonchat program.

Brin: Swan, really? I don't see Cricket at all and only just saw you come in.

Brin: Swan, I've been here by myself (so it seems) the whole time.

Cricket: I think I'm going to head out and give Charlie a walk. I hadn't had a chance since I was bowling so would like to get out before it gets dark.

Cricket: Have a good week!

Swan: Brin - I just do not know what has happened, something similar happened last Tuesday, Beth and I were chatting away and others only saw the room from Sunday and had somehow gotten into a room that I had deleted. I kicked myself out of chat and when I came back in you are here, but Cricket seems to be gone.

Brin: Swan, yes very weird. Last week's Wed chat, I saw Bill post Good evening to you but you said Bill hasn't come into the room yet. But that was the only thing I saw from Bill. The previous Wed, I never saw Bill post anything, so I just chatted with you only.

Swan: Brin - Actually Bill was in the room, he and Little Magpie were talking. I have to get with the programmer before Wednesday and find out what is happening, thanks for reminding me.

Swan: Well it is the top of the hour; sorry you sat in here a lone for most of it. Hopefully I can get it figured out and we can get it fixed soon. Have a great week.

Brin: Have a great week Swan. Thanks.

Swan: Ladies there is a gentleman that has emailed through the website with questions, I invited him to create a log in and come to chats, not sure if he will or not. I felt I should let him know most of the chat attendees are women, to which he did state he was cautious about that because his wife has installed spyware on their computer and he knows that she checks every key stroke on their computer now. He has been using his friend’s computer to email the site. I forwarded his questions to Bill, but thought I should let you all know in case he braves it and comes into chat. They have been married 35 years, he is the one going through MLC, he has had several affairs the past year, his wife found out and at first she threw him out of the house. She has since let him move back home, but watches his every move like a hawk. He says he understands, he has betrayed her trust, but her actions are also starting to wear him out, he doesn't know how much longer he can deal with it.

Cricket: Thanks for the heads up. Hopefully he'll be able to at least connect with Bill. Too bad that some of the guys who had participated haven't connected for quite awhile... but then most of the women members haven't either. When I signed in, it showed Brin but I haven't seen anything from her tonight.

 

For a list of media recommendations by Midlife Dimensions and our Chat Room Facilitators, please visit at http://love-wise.com/product.php or http://astore.amazon.com/midlife-20

Amazon sends a donation to the non-profit ministry of Midlife Dimensions anytime an order is placed via our link. We hope you enjoy the various lists of recommendations and thank you for supporting Midlife Dimensions through Amazon.

 

April 07, 2019 / Sunday

Cricket: Good evening all.

Brin: Welcome to Sunday chat!

Swan: Hello ladies, how are you tonight?

Cricket: I'm good. Bowled in a tournament (6 games) so crashed with the computer next to me when I got home. Beautiful day though.

Swan: Cricket - Wow, 6 games, that is a lot, I personally get tired after just one game.

Cricket: My only issue was one of my fingers was sore the last couple games, apparently lifting more with that finger and hard to be inside on such a beautiful day.

Swan: Cricket - Yes, today was really nice down here as well. Last week we were overcast and much cooler, this week it is feeling a lot like summer. At least at work I have plenty of windows so I can kind of enjoy the beautiful days. Much different from a bowling alley, not much natural light there.

Swan: Brin - How are things going for you?

Cricket: Swan - Same here. WE had a nice weekend but some showers, cooler and cloudy during week but nice weekend.

Swan: Ladies there is a gentleman that has emailed through the website with questions, I invited him to create a log in and come to chats, not sure if he will or not. I felt I should let him know most of the chat attendees are women, to which he did state he was cautious about that because his wife has installed spyware on their computer and he knows that she checks every key stroke on their computer now. He has been using his friend’s computer to email the site. I forwarded his questions to Bill, but thought I should let you all know in case he braves it and comes into chat. They have been married 35 years, he is the one going through MLC, he has had several affairs the past year, his wife found out and at first she threw him out of the house. She has since let him move back home, but watches his every move like a hawk. He says he understands, he has betrayed her trust, but her actions are also starting to wear him out, he doesn't know how much longer he can deal with it.

Cricket: Thanks for the heads up. Hopefully he'll be able to at least connect with Bill. Too bad that some of the guys who had participated haven't connected for quite awhile... but then most of the women members haven't either. When I signed in, it showed Brin but I haven't seen anything from her tonight.

Swan: Cricket - she said welcome at the start, but hasn't responded since. The male members have pretty much moved on. Many of the females spend more time communicating through email and face book these days. Not sure if it is because chat is only at certain times or what, but the 24/7 method seems more popular lately. Bill says he is working on upgrading the site and adding more communication features, but I also know his travel schedule has been pretty busy, so I think the website and chat take a backseat to his conferences.

Cricket: Really - I never saw a welcome either.

Cricket: Swan - I know there is a group that participates on a separate prayer site that spun off of MLD.

Swan: Interesting, you gave your good evening all at 6:02 and she noted welcome to Sunday chat at 6:04. The site has been acting up some nights as well, last week we had an issue on Tuesday night that there was a chat room, Beth and I were in it, yet others said they only saw the Sunday chat and somehow got in it. I had deleted Sunday when I created Tuesday, so I have no clue how they were able to chat in it.

Cricket: Swan - I do know some became concerned when they got the warnings about out safety with the site but others seem to connect privately.

Swan: I know about that spin off as well and sadly there were many that followed because they wanted to do more bashing of their spouse and the other person than we allow here.

Cricket: I really think that the warnings and lack of presence when you Google mld hurt's us.

Cricket: Swan - I think part of it is that they've worked through difficult times to where they don't need the encouragement as much as they did in early days. They don't feel needed either as most have been at this for quite a while. If new members were to find us, they'd feel more of a purpose. I understand that as I come to chat to give back but not for my own encouragement.

Brin: Hello Swan, Glad to see you. It's been lonely in this room.

Brin: How are you today Swan?

Swan: New people find the website all the time, I get emails from them and I invite them to chat. Many say they might come to chat; others worry about their spouses finding them on chat and using it against them.

Swan: Brin - Cricket and I were just commented that you haven't said anything. We have been chatting away; I am getting so frustrated with this addonchat program.

Brin: Swan, really? I don't see Cricket at all and only just saw you come in.

Brin: Swan, I've been here by myself (so it seems) the whole time.

Cricket: I think I'm going to head out and give Charlie a walk. I hadn't had a chance since I was bowling so would like to get out before it gets dark.

Cricket: Have a good week!

Swan: Brin - I just do not know what has happened, something similar happened last Tuesday, Beth and I were chatting away and others only saw the room from Sunday and had somehow gotten into a room that I had deleted. I kicked myself out of chat and when I came back in you are here, but Cricket seems to be gone.

Brin: Swan, yes very weird. Last week's Wed chat, I saw Bill post Good evening to you but you said Bill hasn't come into the room yet. But that was the only thing I saw from Bill. The previous Wed, I never saw Bill post anything, so I just chatted with you only.

Swan: Brin - Actually Bill was in the room, he and Little Magpie were talking. I have to get with the programmer before Wednesday and find out what is happening, thanks for reminding me.

Swan: Well it is the top of the hour; sorry you sat in here a lone for most of it. Hopefully I can get it figured out and we can get it fixed soon. Have a great week.

Brin: Have a great week Swan. Thanks.