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February 04, 2018 / Sunday

dumbfounded2: Beth- My H has been very repentant and treats me better than he did the first 20 years of our marriage. He was gone for almost 6 years and went down some dark roads but has come out the other side a changed man.

Beth: dumbfounded2 I don’t seem to be getting any answers. I find it confusing. Apparently H and ow were broke up and son wanted him to move in with them. H said he did not want to impose on anybody so stayed where he was. It seems they got back together. Ow in my H’s life was very controlling. My H was not the same man I married.

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February 04, 2018 / Sunday

Beth: Good evening. Sorry I am late.

dumbfounded2: To all: Good evening.

Beth: Dumbfounded how are you?

dumbfounded2: Beth: Doing well.

dumbfounded2: Beth: How are you?

Beth: dumbfounded2 I don’t think I have been in chat with you for a long time?

dumbfounded2: Beth: I was thinking the same but I haven’t been in as often since my H returned home.

Beth: dumbfounded2 I am doing fairly good. 42 years ago today we had our first child and we lost him few hours after he was born. Every year latter part of January I get down. I don’t try to get down but it just happens. Actually I forget the time and I wonder why I am so low when I realize another year is here. You would think by now I would not even notice it.

Beth: dumbfounded2 I am happy for you your H is home. And I can understand not bring in chat. You need to spend time with him.

dumbfounded2: Beth: I am so sorry and it is understandable that this time of year will always be difficult under the circumstance

dumbfounded2:

Beth- Thank you. My husband was hurt in a work accident came home from hospital so our lives have been a whirlwind recovering from mlc and the electrical burns.

Beth: dumbfounded2 when my H lived home I always said to him” do you know what today is and he was say yes he did”. Next day I would say same thing because that was date we lost the baby. I even did it for 3 or 4 years after he left.

Beth: dumbfounded2 I would imagine it is. It is enough trying to work in reconciliation as it is alone of health too.

Beth: dumbfounded2 to be honest I still have bad days where my H passed away. I still ask God why he left. Why didn't He come home? There has been a lot going on. One child dealing with it one way and the other another way.

dumbfounded2: Beth- My H has been very repentant and treats me better than he did the first 20 years of our marriage. He was gone for almost 6 years and went down some dark roads but has come out the other side a changed man.

Beth: dumbfounded2 that is good and thank God for that.

dumbfounded2: Beth- All I can say is that God knows the purpose as I begged him for answers but they only came when I let go.

Beth: dumbfounded2 was there another woman

dumbfounded2: Beth- Of course, a very different kind of woman living a very different life. H said he had to leave it before it killed him, very sad it took God to almost take his life before he woke up.

Beth: dumbfounded2 I don’t seem to be getting any answers. I find it confusing. Apparently H and ow were broke up and son wanted him to move in with them. H said he did not want to impose on anybody so stayed where he was. It seems they got back together. Ow in my H’s life was very controlling. My H was not the same man I married.

Beth: Dumbfounded2 that do happen sometimes. God can bring them down. On my thing is I am glad he is out of ow’s life but I wish it was nit by death.

Beth: dumbfounded2 the last 3 yrs before his death he kept in contact with me a lot. When he took real sick in Oct 2016 he told ow to tell me he was sick in hospital. I sometimes feel did I pray enough? Did I do something wrong that he never came back? What could I have done different? The questions are unreal. Is it possible he loved me and ow. Ow told me he still loved me,

Beth: Good night everybody

dumbfounded2: Beth- My H has been very repentant and treats me better than he did the first 20 years of our marriage. He was gone for almost 6 years and went down some dark roads but has come out the other side a changed man.

Beth: dumbfounded2 I don’t seem to be getting any answers. I find it confusing. Apparently H and ow were broke up and son wanted him to move in with them. H said he did not want to impose on anybody so stayed where he was. It seems they got back together. Ow in my H’s life was very controlling. My H was not the same man I married.

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